"Reclaiming the Church and Family For Christ"
Thank you, in Jesus name, for visiting our Web Site.

This page and all included individual links are Scripturally based, and, is our attempt to address many of our 21st Century "Church Membership" & "Christian Family" issues and concerns.  For many years I have received email from "literally", the four corners of our globe and this web site has been developed and grown over those many years in answer to those email questions, comments and concerns.

Our Bible contains 1,189 chapters and 31,240 verses (+/-).  Would you agree with me that with so very many chapters and verses (1,189 chapters and 31,240 verses +/-) available to us that we should be able to find the ANSWERS AND SOLUTIONS to our Christian walk issues within the Word of God?

I'm Rev. Robert John Kuiphoff (Pastor K) and my wife of 50+ years is
Mary Diane Kuiphoff.
We're still kids at heart and life.


No person, man, woman or child should ever feel like the following
when going into or leaving from a local Church Family worship service!

The Word of God, His Bible, has the solution.

Is the world, Saved and Unsaved, asking the same question
Pontius Pilate asked Jesus Christ over 2000 years ago,

"what is truth?"
 (Link> John 18:38 <Link)

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          Salvation isn't optional, don't leave earth without it!!
(link> John 3:3-7<Link)

II- What is the PURPOSE of this Web Page?

This page is our introduction to Golden Faith Bible Church.org (our world wide web ministry and not a brick and mortar church) and my wife and me; who we are and what we believe, live and teach.   We would like to hear from you.



This page contains several beautiful  "In the Womb" baby pictures.

In the womb,
14 weeks old baby:

Due to today's Administration and Congressional leadership,
" When the righteous increase,
the people rejoice,
But when a wicked man rules,
people groan"
[Proverbs 29:2] <<Link
The following is today's, in the womb, baby's prayer:

Question: Does abortion actually kill a baby?

Question: Why are Birth control pills called "birth control" pills and not
                "conception control" pills?

QUESTION: Who does the family planning, the husband, the wife, the
               husband & the wife, or, GOD?

III-  Who is the AUTHOR  and what is his background?

Mary and I have been married for over 50 years, have three married sons and six grandchildren.  Folks, over our many years of life, family life, marriage, work and etc., we've walked in many of your shoes and faced, pressed forward and successfully resolved the same and / or similar situations that you are struggling with.

Both of us have been intrinsically involved in business and industry for many, many years.  Before retirement from industrial and construction management, my primary duties and focus was that of industrial and construction site management, reorganization, productivity and profitability.  My wife has done virtually everything in the business world, i.e. sales, Certified Professional Secretary, Office Administrator, Operations Manager, etc.  As I look back over my calling and challenges, in and out of the Pastoral Pulpit Ministry, my ministries have been primarily that of marriage & family counseling, Church Family reorganization and establishing and / or reestablishing the Biblical foundations of the local Church Family ministry.  Two verses of Scripture send terror through my soul:
         Psalm 11:3, "If the foundations are destroyed, what can the righteous do?
         Luke 18:8b, "... Nevertheless, when the Son of Man comes, will He really find faith on the

IV-  A man's life will demonstrate what he believes in his heart.

AUTHOR'S DOCTRINAL POSITIONS   I invite you to thoroughly compare my convictions with the Word of God. 


1) Church constitution concerning life, children and Divorce and divorced / remarried

2) Church constitution concerning "Church Family Leadership".

an URGENT FYI concerning 501c3 tax exemptions:
           Due to our nation's and the world's financial distress, 501c3 Church Ministry
           tax exemptions are coming under serious scrutiny.  Church leadership
           her membership
need to take immediate  action.  <<Link

Jehovah Witnesses, Mormons, Muslims
What do they believe and teach

**A special NOTE TO Mormons



V-  I am very concerned about our 21st Century Church:


VI "A"



Are you married and struggling?  Are you separated, divorced and struggling?  Are you  divorced and remarried?

Perhaps you're considering  separation, divorce and divorce /  remarriage.  Of the folks visiting this site, the vast majority are divorced and are considering remarriage.  And, a growing number of folks that are divorced are living with someone as a trial, "pre-marriage".  Over 51% of the 21st century church membership is divorced and over 43% of the divorced membership is remarried and both scenarios are climbing exponentially.  Because "confession" is not "repentance" and "divorce" is not "death", what are we to do?

DIVORCE AND DIVORCE / REMARRIAGE AND THE WORD OF GOD --  is  extensive, thorough (135 pages plus) and is used by many Christian college students, Seminary students as well as Christian leaders, Pastors, Missionaries and  everyday Christians.  Many unbelievers also reference this work and contact me for counsel because the truths concerning the sanctity and permanence of marriage are equally applicable to Christian believers and non-Christians, alike.

Did the divorced and remarried folks "ORIGINALLY" gain access into church membership

Please allow me to share many of my  PERSONAL OBSERVATIONS with you.


Question for ministries that have reduced back to only one Sunday AM worship service and no evening worship service:

Where are your members that are in service industries and are required to work Sunday morning and early Sunday afternoon i.e., Nurses, Doctors, Law Enforcement, Firemen and women, Hotel and etc. going to worship and have local Church Family fellowship?

Aren't you telling them and others, i.e., folks in your community, travelers that are passing through your community and others that you aren't interested or concerned about them and their Spiritual needs?

an URGENT FYI concerning 501c3 tax exemptions:
           Due to our nation's and the world's financial distress, 501c3 Church Ministry
           tax exemptions are coming under serious scrutiny.  Church leadership
           her membership
need to take immediate  action.  <<Link

The Fundamental Christian church has scorned, scoffed and condemned the Roman Catholic Church for "ABSOLUTION".  Are we now guilty of the same sin, Christian  ABSOLUTION?

X- three ongoing -- CHURCH FAMILY wars
         The following
TABLE outlines
three ongoing church family wars that from
(A) my understanding of the Word of God, (B) personal observations & experience
         AND (C) conversations with Pastors, leaders and members,

THE following three WARS must be stopped!

War #1


Members leaving & Church splits due to

Divorced & Remarried Pastors, Leaders

At the present time, 2011 & 2012, according to the census for North Carolina, Union County has the lowest divorce rate, 7%, and the highest marriage rate, 64%, in North Carolina.  Frankly, due to the attitudes and practice of the Union County Pastors and church family leaders that I have spoken to, I am amazed.  I am also concerned that this God honoring statistic will not be sustained.  Why not?  Concerning Church membership, one pastor's wife said to me, "we don't care if you've been married and divorced ten times."  A  neighboring church leader said, "our Assistant Pastor is divorced, and, he isn't remarried, yet."  Another pastor said, "we have some divorced and remarried in our membership just as we have other members who are disobedient to the Word of God in their lives."   Another pastor angrily asked me, "Why did the Apostle Paul command the "unmarried" to remarry?!" [a verbatim quote].  Last but not the least, a neighbor, who is also a pastor, replied, "have you read J. Adam's book?"  All of the answers indicate that these men and women have read and made decisions concerning God's commands.  One pastor was condemningly honest in his answer, "we have some divorced and remarried in our membership just as we have other members who are disobedient to the Word of God in their lives", indicating that the sanctity and permanence of marriage isn't highly esteemed.  All acknowledged to me that divorce & remarriage while a\the divorced spouse is yet living is -- sin.

 Don't these pastors, pastor's wives and leaders understand
that willful disobedience to God's known will is something to be feared

Reader, willful disobedience results in "un-heard" prayers:

John 9:31 
" Now we know that God does not hear sinners;
  but if anyone is a worshiper of God and does His will,
  He hears him."

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War #2


Members leaving & Church splits due to
worship services


Church marquees & signs that read

Traditional "Worship" Service:      ??:?? AM
Contemporary "Worship" Service: ??:?? AM

These Church marquees & signs are openly admitting to their communities and all others that, "As Christian members of this church, we cannot agree or get along in the same serviceIt is necessary, for us, to have separate worship services!"

QUESTION: How does this admission square with the following Scriptures that we all know so very well,

1 Corinthians 13:5c
"Love, does not seek its own, ...."

Another verse that we may not know as well,

1 Corinthians 10:24
"Let no man seek his own, but every man another's wealth."

And, a verse that truly puts this issue in a correct perspective,
may make the remainder of this intro page,
and the linked page -- unnecessary,

Philippians 2:21
all seek their own,
not the things which are Jesus Christ's."

My wife and I have been in these church FAMILY worship services across our nation, and, we don't just feel the tension, we've had church family members explain to us in "no uncertain words" their frustrations.

question:  When did Sunday worship services become Sunday music and entertainment services?  Reader, there isn't a First Day of the week music and entertainment service recorded in the entire New Testament.  In every occasion mentioned they met to hear the teaching of the Word of God.  Pastors are ordained to preach the Word, not entertain?   [The following is from the Amplified Version.]

2 Timothy 4:1-4, "I CHARGE [you] in the presence of God and of Christ Jesus, Who is to judge the living and the dead, and by (in the light of) His coming and His kingdom:

[2] Herald and preach the Word! Keep your sense of urgency [stand by, be at hand and ready], whether the opportunity seems to be favorable or unfavorable. [Whether it is convenient or inconvenient, whether it is welcome or unwelcome, you as preacher of the Word are to show people in what way their lives are wrong.] And convince them, rebuking and correcting, warning and urging and encouraging them, being unflagging and inexhaustible in patience and teaching.

[3] For the time is coming when [people] will not tolerate (endure) sound and wholesome instruction, but, having ears itching [for something pleasing and gratifying], they will gather to themselves one teacher after another to a considerable number, chosen to satisfy their own liking and to foster the errors they hold,

[4] And will turn aside from hearing the truth and wander off into myths and man-made fictions."

Small and large congregations are divided and doctrinally strong members are leaving over music and not sin issues (the young in opposition to the old & the old in opposition to the young).  Shame on us

1 Corinthians 1:10, "Now I plead with you, brethren, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that you all speak the same thing, and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be perfectly joined together in the same mind and in the same judgment;  but in giving this instruction, I do not praise you, because you come together not for the better but for the worse. [18] For, in the first place, when you come together as a church, I hear that divisions exist among you; and in part, I believe it."
[1 Corinthians 11:17-18]

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War #3


Members leaving & Church splits due to

King James only

I am quickly approaching the Biblical three score and ten (seventy year) distinctive age mark.  I have several shelves in my study that have many worn out King James pocket and study Bibles.  For the record, I carry a KJV pocket Bible in my shirt and / or suit coat pocket where ever I go and have -- my entire adult life.  I have had more fun with our grandchildren and other youngsters who, while sitting on my lap, have pulled my KJV pocket Bible out of my pockets and have inquisitively looked at, looked through and played with them.

October 2009 the KJV Bible only war spiraled embarrassingly "out of control" when a North Carolina Pastor announced that he and fourteen (14) members of his fledgling church were going to burn all other Bibles.  Web news and news agencies as far away as Africa, along with hundreds of other web sites and news agencies in the USA and around the world, scornfully reported that a USA Church was going to burn Bibles! 

Are the KJV only extremists  in violation of the Word of God,

1 Timothy 3:16a
 “And without controversy great is the mystery of godliness….” [KJV]


"my personal experience"
concerning the KJV only controversy 

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The following verses of Scripture are keys in understanding our approach to life (the world), ministry (the Church) and the Word of God.  

Genesis 1:1-3
"In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. [2] The earth was without form, and void; and darkness was on the face of the deep.  And the Spirit of God was hovering over the face of the waters. [3] Then God said, ..."

Genesis 1:31
"Then God saw everything that He had made, and indeed it was very good.  So the evening and the morning were the sixth day."

Genesis 3:17 

"Then to Adam He said, "Because you have listened to the voice of your wife, and have eaten from the tree about which I commanded you, saying, 'You shall not eat from it'; Cursed is the ground because of you; In toil you shall eat of it all the days of your life."

Romans 5:12-6:2
"Therefore, just as through one man sin entered the world, and death through sin, and thus death spread to all men, because all sinned-- [13] (For until the law sin was in the world, but sin is not imputed when there is no law. [14] Nevertheless death reigned from Adam to Moses, even over those who had not sinned according to the likeness of the transgression of Adam, who is a type of Him who was to come. [15] But the free gift is not like the offense. For if by the one man's offense many died, much more the grace of God and the gift by the grace of the one Man, Jesus Christ, abounded to many. [16] And the gift is not like that which came through the one who sinned. For the judgment which came from one offense resulted in condemnation, but the free gift which came from many offenses resulted in justification. [17] For if by the one man's offense death reigned through the one, much more those who receive abundance of grace and of the gift of righteousness will reign in life through the One, Jesus Christ.) [18] Therefore, as through one man's offense judgment came to all men, resulting in condemnation, even so through one Man's righteous act the free gift came to all men, resulting in justification of life. [19] For as by one man's disobedience many were made sinners, so also by one Man's obedience many will be made righteous. [20] Moreover the law entered that the offense might abound. But where sin abounded, grace abounded much more, [21] so that as sin reigned in death, even so grace might reign through righteousness to eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. [6:1] What shall we say then?  Shall we continue in sin that grace may abound? [2] Certainly not! How shall we who died to sin live any longer in it?"

Acts 17:30 
"Therefore having overlooked the times of ignorance, God is now declaring to men that all everywhere should repent, 

1 John 5:4 

"For who ever is born of God -- overcomes the (the sins and ungodly powers of the...my addition) world.  And this is the victory that has overcome the world -- our faith."

2 Timothy 3:16 
"All Scripture -- {Genesis 1:1 - Revelation 22:21...my addition) -- is inspired by God and profitable for teachingfor reprooffor correctionfor training in righteousness" 

Proverbs 30:5-6 
"Every word of God is pure -- {Genesis 1:1 - Revelation 22:21...my addition) -- ; He is a shield to those who put their trust in Him. [6] Do not add to His words, lest He rebuke you, and you be found a liar."

Psalm 11:3
"If the foundations are destroyed, what can the righteous do?"

Luke 18:8b 
"..... However, when the Son of Man comes, will He find -- faith --  on the earth?"

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Please be advised, Rev. Robert J. Kuiphoff is an Ordained Minister of the Word of God and is not a licensed or trained Attorney, Psychologist, Psychiatrist or Medical Practitioner or Physician.  Any and all counsel, suggestions and / or advice derived from www.goldenfaithbiblechurch.org or via email, telephone or personal conversations with Rev. Robert J. Kuiphoff is based solely upon Rev. Robert J. Kuiphoff's personal convictions concerning the Word of God; his personal interpretation of the Word of God and his lengthy experience counseling and advising men, women and children concerning the Christian Life and daily walk in the world that we all live in from the Word of God and / or his personal observations and experiences.

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